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Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by Haynes

Haynes — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 03:52:21 +0000

I agree, my husband and i lived in NY
Lived together for six years. He was offered another
Job out of state. However I have been at my jb for
21yrs. We always talked about moving out of
State, however we decided he should take this jb
It was a perfect opportunity for him and the
Our family. I also thought about me, if I mk
This move w/him I would like us to get married
Being that I was leaving my jb, and i
Was taking my daughter to another state.
My daughter is his stepdaughter. Well he moved
First while i stayed in NY to pack and get
Things together, I traveled back and forth
To see him, helped him find a place, getting
Settled into the new environment. He started his
Job in Dec 2011 we got married in April
2011, my job in NY gave us party, w/wonderful
Gifts and lots of blessings from friends and
Family. We went Panama City to celebrate
Our marriage, it was great. I went back
To NY, my job new I was leaving, then
I noticed a change in June, he was not
Answering his ph, until the next Morning,
The calls stopped coming in, in my gut
I knew something was wrong. Well I
Went to where he lived I needed to find out
Was was going on, he said he wanted his
Space.which was bull——, I remember
When I was visiting him in June while he
Was at work, I would go to the pool to
Sit and relax, and this woman would come
And go in the jacuzzi and sit there and
Look at me, i was thinking to myself
Why is this woman looking at me,so
Hard , she would be there for 5min
And leave. Come to find out the woman
He is/with Della Upshaw from Columbus
GA,her neice was the lady at the pool,
So she would come to check me out
For her Aunt. And they all live in the
Same complex. They always saw me
And my husband together, I tell you God
Does not approve of this, when I found out
About the affair he lost his jb that next
Day, Della on the other hand opened a
Quick door for him, providing luxury cars
For him, fixed it where he could receive
A paycheck every month, so him being
Who he is thinking about only himself
Is with her, mean while I already left
My job, I had to enroll my daughter in
A different school, I wad heartbroken
To know end, I was admitted to the hospital
For the stress.I could go on, the point I am
Making is yes I will blame the other woman
Because she knew he was married and knew
He had a stepdaughter, and saw me
Alot, and her niece. They had a plan
And yes he will be held accountable
From the higher up, devils come in
Many faces, to end this story we have not
Divorced yet, he sends me e-mails and
Saying that he did things for the wrong
Reasons,which is crap, he 56yrs old
He knows exactly what he did, and
Della Upshaw as well. I have faith
So I know God will work this out.

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by Latisha

Latisha — Sat, 17 Dec 2011 02:01:40 +0000

I want to thank you all , you just stopped a lot of tears. I waited till I was 32 to get married and find the right one and have a child , my husband is in his 50s and only wanted one child , even thow i wanted more , we have been married for 6 yrs , then this woman who had a vandetta against me got with my husband and got pregnant and is suing him for child support . She is 36 yrs old and this is her only child even thow she was in a relationship with other men . She calls and SMS both of us and our family all the time as to rub this in my face. I’ve tryed to salvage my marriage for our son but I just can’t . I have hurd to many horra stories of wives having to pay child support and i wont do it .Me and my son are the ones who really lose, but I think she should suffer too along with him for being stupid . Thank you all !

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by Michael

Michael — Sat, 03 Dec 2011 04:28:01 +0000

I think the law should be even harsher, There seems to always be someone willing to take whats not theirs. You want a wife get your own you want a husband get your own. I live in North Carolina, I’m at the start of this night mare for me. My wife is in the bed of a married man tonight. My wife is married to me and this guy is married to his wife, There is no shame. I tonight am alone while another man has my wife. The full force of the law should be allowed to merit a little justice. They have ground me to powder. This Law is no joke. Make it stronger.

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by America is Immature!

America is Immature! — Wed, 26 Oct 2011 18:23:49 +0000

When are people going to grow up? If a MARRIED man has an affair and goes off with an UNMARRIIED woman, then he is the one who is cheating. If a husband loves his wife then he is faithful, if he can be tempted then that is his fault, not the wife nor the mistress. Your husband went off with someone else, what is hurt, your pride. In a divorce, presumably, a fair division of marital assets would be made, but to sue the girlfriend for millions is pathetic and sad. You cant force someone to love you, to stay with you, and if you could, would you want to. Have some dignity. The American justice system is a joke.

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by Jealous...

Jealous... — Mon, 24 Oct 2011 23:39:08 +0000

My husband and I have been married for 5 1/2 yrs. Now. In 2010 we had our first child. I am not the one up for drama. Back in june he was connected by a high school girlfriend claiming they have an 8yr old son via facebook (home wrecking site). This girl told me that she wanted to wait until my husband got married to tell him this. This hoe has been all on my page comparing herself to me. She lies to every one even sent my husband a pic of her va-jj. All of a sudden 8 yrs later she juss has to have my husband in that child’s life. She even divorced her husband who raised this boy because he did not want my husband in the pic because he raised that boy. which I agree. He raised that boy. My husband knows I’ve only been with guys without kids because of the baby mama drama. (perfect example). I love my husband but if that boy is his I may leave. I dont want to go to jail because I will strangle this homewrecking hoe. She wants him back. I don’t want this drama we were great until this she-devil. And what’s funny is the same thing happened to my best friend earlier this year. Facebook helps home wreckers ruin a happy home!!

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by Lynne

Lynne — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 15:08:04 +0000

I find it interesting this law. I’m from Illinois and just discovered this. I have to agree it takes 2 that is why you can go after both. In my case my spouse whom we are still married but in process of divorce had an affair with a 24 year old, now let me tell you his oldest child is 25 now, so that tells you his age round about, this led to a pregnancy which he stated simply it was only one time. Well last week they just had their second child, the first one is only 10 months! She has a history of going after married men, not the first or second or third time of her doing this! So tell me she doesn’t need to learn a lesson! She has hurt many married couples and destroyed my family. I am really thinking hard about using this law in my divorce case. We punish someone when they steal and this is no different, she stole!

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by aurorab

aurorab — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 21:45:24 +0000

Marriage is a contract and like all contracts should be subject to consequences if broken. This includes people trying to break up the contract, it’s the same in many businesses. I think more states should have these types of laws and be as harsh as North Carolina. In some countries you can go to jail (many Arab countries), and I think these laws should be international.

If other woman gets pregnant she can still get child support (international-though that is harder) even if she screwing a married man. Personally, in these cases there should be more laws she(he where applicable) is guilty of, like theft, emotional distress to betrayed spouse and to children from the marriage. Lots more to think about where others do not think.

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by Mya

Mya — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 19:44:19 +0000

I have no problem with this law, especially since I plan to use it. If you know someone is married and still living with their spouse and haven’t been seperated for more than 6mos then thats on you. No need to play stupid now that you know you have to pay up.

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by Robin

Robin — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 04:32:27 +0000

I have one for you. I was connected through Facebook by my first boyfriend, since that time we have talked to only discover that his mother , whom I was very close to is dying, he lost his job and as he stated was in a marriage only for convenience. Since that time I has confessed his love for me and that he made a mistake 23 years ago when he left me for his now current wife, due to a unplanned pregnancy. Well, long story short, he has pursued me constantly and I have told him no that he needs to try and make his marriage work. He since has filed separation papers and the wife is now stating she is gonna sue me. The time Span five weeks and she wants to sue me for a failed marriage and a husband who obiviously is distraught over numerous things. I could see her frustration if I was seeking him, in this case he is the aggressor and yet I am considered third party to this event just by trying to befriend someone who I thought needed a friend in a time of need. Home wrecker I am not, yet what happens in this case. I think the law needs to be revisited because I see the use in malicious and intentional situations.

Comment on Alienation of Affection: Suing the Homewrecker that Destroyed Your Marriage by betrayed11

betrayed11 — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 23:58:25 +0000

I’m going through this with my husband. Yes he was WEAK at a vulnerable time of his life.He lost his mother to cancer & had a lot of guilt.This homewrecker lives in Va. She is a very good maniplulator/talker.If he changed his number & block her from facebook,& lose her number, we’d be fine. I think these laws would be great in every state. I think if there were consequences for their actions there would be less affairs. If they are so unhappy, let them file for divorce FIRST, then look for something new.I really believe if there were consequences,these people wouldn’t chase after married people.I would support these laws cause they would think before doing.Even if these laws were put/kept in place for all states.The thought of the possibilty of being sued should scare’em enough to think before doing it.This is just my opinnion.THINK!!!!